"Experience is the best teacher". You are the teacher in this case and we expect you to handle her carefully.
It's her first time so sex can be pretty clumsy and awkward, particularly when you are experienced and she is not.
So you need to be careful so your partner enjoys sex but you also have to keep your own pleasure in mind to make a memorable experience. Below are tips that will help you make sure you give your inexperienced partner the best sensual experience ever.
1. Make sure she's relaxed
You can reduce much of her anxiety with a few simple tricks. She’s likely to be feeling self-conscious, so start with a few confidence boosters. Tell her she’s sexy and let her know she looks fabulous in your bed. Even if she already knows this, hearing you say it will do wonders. Spend extra time kissing, letting her know you're focused is on her, and not just her body.
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2. Also take it slow
You are not only a sex partner in this situation, you are a teacher. So if you want your partner to get the maximum pleasure from sex, then you definitely need to take things slow and give her time to catch up. You should tease, touch and caress her slowly so she can get used to the excitement.
3. Turn her on
Unfortunately, many men break the mojo just before penetration. It’s not deliberate, they just get a bit tense knowing they’re about to cause their partner a minor amount of pain. Relax, she knows what's coming and she’s not going to hold it against you. Go slowly, but don’t forget to kiss and caress her as you do. This gives her something else to focus on and keeps her aroused.
4. Encourage her
A sexual rookie needs encouragement and a lot of it. They need to know they are doing something right so do not forget to compliment her and show your approval.
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5. Let her lead
She might feel nervous and shy but for her to have a swell time, she needs to feel relaxed and confident. So to make this happen, she needs to be in control, give her a chance to take the lead. Let her have the chance to follow her senses so she can please you also.
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